As each person is unique and different from the other person, so all the relationships we maintain are unique and very complex in this world. All of us want to marry the best suited person for us and dream of continuing that relationship for life time, but in reality we find it is the most difficult task to carry on a relationship with same flavor forever.
Many marriages degrade in quality over time and end up in a conflicted state. All marriages tend to experience as becoming less satisfying as time passes.
You should be totally happy and comfortable in a relationship and enjoy it fully. It should give you plenty of joy; it should make you feel special & reason to lead life successfully.
It requires a lot of effort, sincerity and dedication to maintain a healthy relationship. It should never be taken for granted at any point of time and positive efforts should be given to make it better. Active listening plays an important role here as we have seen most men prefer watching TV or surfing net rather than listening to what their partners trying to say. Successful partners develop friendship among them so proper communication & exchange of thoughts between partners do really help to keep problems away.
Financial problems often break a marriage, so it is always better to decide on these issues before marriage and be clear about role expectations. Do share your worries with your partner so that both of you can solve any problem mutually.
Another dangerous threat to marriage is affairs outside marriage. Affairs can happen at any time, although they are most likely to occur during the middle years of marriage. One has to judge the depth of the affair and whether that affair has more meaning than marriage.
So one should take proper steps and give serious thought in maintaining proper matrimonial relation.
About the Author: Authors Bio: Sukanya Chakraborty, Marriage Counselor of Jogajog.net, a popular Bengali matrimonial website shares her thought on effectiveness of successful matrimony.
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